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Here's How To Get Physical With A Woman
When we are talking about subjects such as "relating to women", or "how to relate to women" or "Are you able to relate to women?", I usually get asked about the best way to start getting physical with a girl that you have known as a friend for awhile.
Getting physical is something which generally occurs naturally between a man and a woman more than a three month period unless one or both of them is extremely uncomfortable on disinterested.
When a man is uncomfortable with approaching a woman for a physical relationship, the main thing which a guy can do to deal with that is learn how to observe and use gradients.
What are gradients? Gradients are like steps on a ladder that you climb to get to the top. A few guys might try to go to the top level of the ladder without climbing any of the steps. And that makes the girl uncomfortable as well as the guy.
A guy who is uncomfortable in this area ought to learn both how to identify gradients when women use them and the way to use gradients on women.
Not every woman will start at the same gradient. Some women will begin with a kiss after a first date, and proceed gradually or swiftly from there - from kissing, to making out, to petting, to heavy petting and finally to sexual relations. If a man tries to jump to the "sexual relations" stage without going through the other gradients, he might just lose the girl. Conversely, you may lose a girl as you are moving up the gradients too slowly.
Now other women won't even be up to the gradient of giving you a goodnight kiss till the seventh date. Gradients for her might be: getting to know you, talking about sexual topics indirectly (for example commiserating about an ex-boyfriend), accidental touch (bumping into you while you stroll), purposeful little touches to your arm or leg, holding onto your arm as you go walking, holding your hand, and then a goodnight kiss.
If you are uncomfortable with this area and want to get physical with a girl, flirt with her, romance her, observe where she is on the gradients of sexual contact, then lead her up the gradients gently. So long as you don't by pass too many gradients, if she is interested, she will move up the gradients swiftly or slowly depending on her personality.
If she is not interested, she probably won't budge. Try lowering the gradient and if she still doesn't budge, try talking about it. Ask her if she is interested in a relationship with you or if she only wants to be good friends.
Don't forget that most women won't go out on a "date" with you unless of course they are already vaguely okay with the concept of getting physical with you. So you might want to clarify if you are dating or just "chilling out."
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